So, you’ve met a nice young woman and are all set to go on your third date together.

The first one went well: you brought her to a not-too-scummy bar, bought her drinks, told her a funny joke. The second went well too: you found some nice restaurant, bought her dinner, even dessert, walked her to her door, French kissed her.

But now it’s the third date, and if you’re like most American men, this is the date where you go for the close. Unfortunately, we can’t tell you how to close (what to say to get her back into your apartment, what to say to get her on your couch, when to lean in for the kill), but we can tell you what to wear to help you make your sexual dreams a reality.

So, for this edition of SlamXStyle, a curated outfit tailored for timely events, we do just that: here’s what to wear on your third date. Click through the gallery above, then shop the links below.

Shop Public School via SSENSE

Ship John Elliot + Co

Shop A.P.C.

Shop Red Wing Shoes via Mr. Porter

Shop Underwear

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