GHOSTING LEAVES THE DOOR OPEN
Ghosting as succinctly defined by Urban Dictionary is “The act of suddenly ceasing all communication with someone the subject is dating, but no longer wishes to date.”. It communicates nothing but immaturity and selfishness and the effect it has on the girl goes beyond our level of comprehension. Do not practice it, if you do not want to be on the receiving end because, in the end, you get back what you give! Be clear to yourself about your intentions and be even clearer to her! Nothing beats the old brew of honesty.
THEY RECOVER FROM BREAKUPS FASTER
Contrary to the popular belief girls actually get over a heartbreak faster than their male counterparts because they feel the brunt of the grief fresh-off-the-boat and once they’re done with it, she won’t even give you a glance back! While on the other hand for guys the pain arrives quite late and then the begging follows, but then its already too late, isn’t it? So before you take a decision like this, reevaluate the reason and the consequences and then move forward with it.
THEY THINK YOU’RE BEING
The banalest deal-breaker of all is and its counterpart Misogyny. Nothing will put off your girl more than the fact that you’re a swine. Feminism is the need of the hour and nothing is good than the men who have a true perspective of it and equates it with parity rather than joining the troop of archaical men.
Look around and hear the screams of anguish around you, understand the core of it and wake up as the 21st-century human. If your girl, calls you out on something, review your words and actions, being headstrong at this point is NOT advisable at all! A compliment which might seem harmless to you now may prove lethal to your girl. So be open-minded and accommodating about it.
It’s time to brush up on your basic if you already haven’t and create your own opinion about it rather than the popular ones doing rounds everywhere. Decide if you really want to join the men on the bandwagon of toxic masculinity or the ones on the sensible humanity?
KEEP IT SLOW
In our childhood the motto that the ‘slow and steady wins the race’ works like magic while sailing through the turbulent course of relationships and love. Don’t be hasty, keep up the good pace and you will catch all the green signals in your way and safely navigate through the red ones.
Skipping these steps will sink your ship faster than the Titanic. We want to make love not a tragedy and then even the physical aspect of your relationship will intensify to a point beyond your imagination. Treat her right and she will lay down the world at your feet!
