8 Things You Shouldn’t do for your children
Here are the 8 things you shouldn’t do for your children
Talk of their name
One of the first things you shouldn’t do for your children is when someone meets you for the first time and ask about your son’s name then make it a habit that you must not speak instead of them. It is nice if your child will see at once how to express it. But we always talk on their behalf. If someone questions them, then they will answer.
What can we do in the end? We should give a chance to our kids so that they will know more about themselves and the people around them. They will learn how to speak to different kind of people. Let them give one try at least.
2. Be kind to people and become their friends
Many parents try to become good friends of other people, but they will never ask us to do so because they don’t want us to develop a deep connection with the citizens. A friend is a citizen with whom we can share our feelings without condition. But our parents care about us and hence forbids us to make new friends very often. But we can support them to find the right person as their friend but should stop them living their life.
Want vs need
Well, we know that the broccoli is healthier than eating candies and the new sneakers are useful than the dolls. And we must understand that if a child says that he is hungry, then that means he will work for candies and chocolates from you. So, not always but you must fulfill the wishes of a child. You can give them sweets to eat if they ask you about that.
Helping children a lot
Well, according to science they say a child who is two years old or more can quickly put on and off their clothes. So, you must teach them how it is right and wrong to put on, but it will be wrong if you will put the clothes on them. You should show them good habits like wash cups, and put dirty clothes in the washing machine. Moreover, many children prefer to do it by themselves. But you always dress them until they get married. It is wrong on your part. Children will not become independent like this.
Choose Their Tastes
Well, as we are in the same way, we try to dress up our children. We try to give them the same musical taste and want them to become fond of reading books even if they feel it boring. But it will diminish the personality of a child. There are many cases when your kids are exactly opposite to you. You should love what you want but do not force things on them. It will be wrong in their brain and put pressure on them.
Counting their money
In the life of every child there comes a time when they will make the pocket money. But the fact is you should not interrogate with them for their savings from the pocket money. You should not find out how much money they are having. The worst situation is when you check their bags and their pockets. They will never trust you after that.
Do you think it matters a lot for you that how much money your son or daughter is having? Might be they are saving it for the future time. It is not right to ask or check them.
Choose hobbies and interests.
You might want your daughter to play the violin so that she can make her day by letting her play in front of the entire city. But the husband might ask her to play some outdoor activity like football in the evening time. Now the child must be thinking about what to do with them. Parents want to impose their hobbies on their children who are not right. Be patient and ask your kids what they want. Do not impose things on them. Ask them to develop their talents.
Take their achievements as yours.
The most caring mothers will say “we” instead of he or she. They should train their children in the beginning so that they will not become dependent on them. These things get serious when the child grows up, and so you must take care of them consciously.
